kudos 2 u, cuz not only did u figure it out, u managed to be charming as well as sharp witted.
ya, there r definitely quite a few ppl who i can think of, who thrive on the illusion of living a lie. it comforts them from the reality they live in.
and is all we can do is simply say "whatever toots their horn"
i guess it depends who + what circumstances.
will he have no doubt? come to think about it, as great as we can get along, we often disagree with many views on life. for example) we're co-managers at work. he believes there's no such thing as bad staff. he thinks they're always telling the truth, even if they call in sick, time after endless time. myself, i'm more cold hearted. i don't believe a single word my staff say whenever i hear an excuse of why they can't come in. or if they're sick *cough cough* there have been many, MANY times where i was right about people lying, and he was wrong. yet, he still doesn't want to admit i'm right.
anyhoo, fuck being a manager... that job is nothing but bullshit LOL
i concur... i think this guy is living a lie and enjoys it.
for example.. he likes a girl we both work with, 1 of our staff. i think she's showing VERY VERY low indicators of interest. seldom calls him, doesn't really go out with him, texts once in a while. said she'd be at his bday and his designated driver but didnt show up. anyways.. he seems to be all hung up on her. there r girls that actually like him but he doesnt want the easy 1s, he wants miss hard to get. well, to each their own. personally, i think the girl who likes him, is better looking, and doin well in life, finished university, has a good job, stable in life. young. wherease the girl he's more interested in isn't quite the same. she prefers to date assholes who use + abuse her, fuck + chuck, cheat on her, treat her like shit, has an ok job elsewhere, doesn't really have goals in life. old. not reliable sometimes.
yet he chooses that... i think he's askin for trouble.. but hey.. as long as he likes em i suppose. who am i to say what's good and not good for him.
lol. u think girls r better at cheating... more sneaky than guys? oh.. idk... cuz my ex cheated and i caught her waaaaaaaaaay too easily. and i know this other guy, who cheats on his gf constantly... he's been caught a few times.. but he's gotten away with 293048230984290348230948 countless x countless times...
so i dont think gender indicates level of sneakiness but it just comes down to how smart/careful someone is.
nvmd, just read on and u were joking
lol hard to read sarcasm online :p
if a dude was cheating on a girl, well, guy or girl, it depends how close i am to them. the guy i know, who cheats on his gf. knows i dont approve. but it's not my life and/or my business. he does his thing and that's it. i happen to know him and not his gf. so it makes no sense for me to turn to his gf and rat him out or somethin like that.
and in this case, i'm closer to the guy, and the girl is the cheater. obviously, i'd stick with my friend.
my sis, when i suspected her bf was cheating on her, i was ready to turn his face into mashed potatoes...
so ya, it's not gender, but stronger bonds prevail.
knight in shining armor, this is where ur charm kicked in. and yes, the honorable thing to do is protect a girl. i extend this protectiveness to people i care about in general. friends, family, loved ones, significant others, etc etc
and thanks.
hmm... my friend says he's over his ex and moving on. he claims to have interest in other girls, which is good. but at the same time... when he tells me he's still talk to his ex.. i ask, "why?" (this is b4 i found out her true colors)
he'd say "y not? we're still friends. i can't just be cold to her. i'm not like you. i'm not as harsh. but we didnt' break on bad terms either"
(little does he know...)
i think he's not ready for the truth.... and after thinking about how he is... i may as well leave him in his delusion.
although i think this is the most logical choice... something just doesnt sit right...
